# Sexual Betrayal - What If Being Honest Will Blow Up My Marriage? - Ep. 215

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Podcast: [Finding Traction: Recovery from Porn](https://stenobird.com/podcast/finding-traction-recovery-from-porn-451774)
Published: 2026-09-05T21:30:19+00:00
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## Resource

Todays episode deals with one of the toughest questions I have faced from guys - "What if being honest with my wife will blow up my marriage?" Becuase I needed coaching in this - I brought in an expert Dr. Barbara Steffens who is an expert in helping women and couples deal with betrayal and trauma. If you are looking for a resource to support your wife as you seek to become more honest - you could do no better than to reach out to the organization she helped found... https://apsats.org/ For you guys.. Are you looking for a group of guys to journey out of porn with? Vern leads men weekly with a 52 week video course that will help your journey out of porn and towards a better life. To find out more about starting groups email him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com In addition, If you want to get access to a host of free recovery resources, I invite you to to sign up for Vern's Circle learning platform. Just use the following link to get started. if you are using a mobile device signup using the link on your web browser BEFORE you download the circle app) - (white circle on a blue background) https://bandofbrothers-care.circle.so/join?invitation_token=84c412c67f81c7a9fa2da045d969987b45464bf0-f9c81a7a-030e-4efe-b164-86d10b099404 If privacy is of concern to you - simply use your first name and last initial (like Vern T.) Your email will remain hidden from other users. p.s On circle you can watch the first two lessons of the Finding Traction course for free. If you want to reach out to Vern with recovery questions, have a free zoom call with him, or find out how you can move towards your porn recovery goals then reach out to him at bandofbrothers.care@gmail.com Are you struggling with porn and wondering how to break free? Finding Traction: Freedom from Porn is a porn recovery…

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