# Dating Hasn't Worked? Don't Make This Mistake... Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718/dating-hasn-t-worked-don-t-make-this-mistake Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718/dating-hasn-t-worked-don-t-make-this-mistake.md Podcast: [Find Love With Emily](https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718) Published: 2026-07-26T19:55:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZaEgGzXxrE/dbac29e9-4ab0-4038-bb8e-608da4f96e1c.mp3 Audio file: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZaEgGzXxrE/dbac29e9-4ab0-4038-bb8e-608da4f96e1c.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/find-love-with-emily-6356718/episodes/dating-hasn-t-worked-don-t-make-this-mistake Duration seconds: 566 ## Resource If you’ve been dating for years, you’re barely holding onto hope you’ll find love while you still have chance… You’ll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. It’s a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments don’t mean you’ve gone backwards, why they’re not a sign to give up on love and what the women who go on to find love do differently when this happens. You'll learn: Why dating setbacks aren’t a sign you won’t find love What to do when anxiety and overthinking come flooding back Why trying to control dating only keeps you stuck How to stop slipping back into old dating patterns The simple course corrections that keep you moving towards love Why finding love isn't about getting everything right, it's about what you do when life and dating knocks you off course. If it feels like dating just hasn’t and won’t work for you, then this episode will give you an entirely new perspective on what’s happening and what this means you do from here to find love. Just because you’ve had a moment where dating hasn’t worked, it doesn’t mean love isn’t. 💖 Episode to listen to next: "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" 👩‍❤️‍👨 Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/find-love-with-emily-6356718/episodes/dating-hasn-t-worked-don-t-make-this-mistake/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/find-love-with-emily-6356718/dating-hasn-t-worked-don-t-make-this-mistake.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.