# 478: Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships Part 2: Fighting Is a Green Flag & Hallmarks of Healthy Love Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/478-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-2-fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/478-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-2-fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love.md Podcast: [Feminine as F*ck](https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383) Published: 2026-05-13T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/feminineasfck/episodes/478-Healthy-vs-Unhealthy-Relationships-Part-2-Fighting-Is-a-Green-Flag--Hallmarks-of-Healthy-Love-e3j7pdm Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/86b33a4/podcast/play/119841654/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-4-11%2F423954056-44100-2-6bf87e57574db.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/episodes/478-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-2-fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love Duration seconds: 3271 ## Resource Part two of this juicy convo is here, and Monica’s diving straight in. β‡’ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/19sNR5gwNVU If you haven't listened to Part One yet, go back and do that first. These two episodes together are basically a whole masterclass on healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, and that foundation will help this land so much better. In Part Two, Monica is cutting through the fear-mongering, black-and-white relationship content flooding your feed and getting into what a healthy relationship actually looks and feels like. She gets into: πŸ’› The red flag from Part One she forgot to mention (it’ll surprise you!) πŸ’› Dr. John Gottman's Love Lab and the 5-to-1 ratio πŸ’› What predicts relationship health more than compatibility or conflict style πŸ’› The real truth about couples who never fight πŸ’› How you can rewire his patterns without dragging him to therapy πŸ’› Why co-regulation is the cherry on top, not the cupcake itself πŸ’› What a healthy relationship actually looks like in practice πŸ’› Permission to stop holding yourself to a standard that isn't real +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: β‡’ Join the free live masterclass β€” From Roommates to Ravished: ο»Ώ https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/roommates-to-ravished-mc?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=blnm-live-2026 β‡’ Keep an eye out for the upcoming program β€” Be a Lover, Not a Mother LIVE: ο»Ώ https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM β‡’ Join the waitlist β€” Juicy New Signature Program: monicayateshealth.typeform.com/waitlist2026 or DM β€œnew era” on Instagram β‡’ Listen to Part 1 of this conversation β€” ο»Ώ https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/477-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-1-is-it-a-red-flag-or-is-it-just-human β‡’ Sign up for the Monthly Ne… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/episodes/478-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-2-fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/478-healthy-vs-unhealthy-relationships-part-2-fighting-is-a-green-flag-hallmarks-of-healthy-love.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.