# 464: Is Polyamory a Trauma Response? What No One’s Saying About ‘Woke’ Relationships Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/464-is-polyamory-a-trauma-response-what-no-one-s-saying-about-woke-relationships Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/464-is-polyamory-a-trauma-response-what-no-one-s-saying-about-woke-relationships.md Podcast: [Feminine as F*ck](https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383) Published: 2026-02-18T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/feminineasfck/episodes/464-Is-Polyamory-a-Trauma-Response--What-No-Ones-Saying-About-Woke-Relationships-e3f7ns9 Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/86b33a4/podcast/play/115645769/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-18%2F418315367-44100-2-f55ea48513ce3.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/episodes/464-is-polyamory-a-trauma-response-what-no-one-s-saying-about-woke-relationships Duration seconds: 2611 ## Resource And why women crave commitment (even if they think they don’t) || In today’s episode, Monica poses the question: What if what’s being marketed as “spiritual evolution” in relationships is actually nervous system dysregulation in disguise? She’s talking about what’s really going on with polyamory, open relationships, and the fear of commitment—especially for women who are ultimately craving safety, devotion, and intimacy. Inside the episode: 🔥 How polyamory can be a trauma response 🔥 Abandonment wounds, people-pleasing, and control in modern dating 🔥 The difference between freedom and emotional avoidance 🔥 Why the feminine needs safety to open and relax 🔥 How masculine commitment creates trust and softness 🔥 The illusion of safety through control, validation, or having multiple partners 🔥 Why drama and dopamine get mistaken for passion 🔥 The dark side of spiritualized relationship language 🔥 How nervous system dysregulation fuels relational chaos 🔥 The ways monogamy can be expansive and erotic +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Join now — Be Claimed: 3-Day Somatic Experience: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-claimed?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=bootcamp-2026 ⇢ Hop on the waitlist — The Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=immersion-2026 ⇢ Listen to the episode — 366: The Dark Side of Personal Development & How to Know if You’ve Actually Done the Work: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/366-the-dark-side-of-personal-development-how-to-know-if-you-ve-actually-done-the-work?_pos=2&_psq=dark+side&_ss=e&_v=1.0&_gl=1*22ukj8*_ga*MTIxOTI3NDA1OS4xNzQ4NTM0MjE2*_ga_XEFT8KE3Z9*czE3NzA2NjkwMzkkbzY5JGcxJHQxNzcwNjY5MDM5JGo2MCRsMCRoMA .. ⇢ Si… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/episodes/464-is-polyamory-a-trauma-response-what-no-one-s-saying-about-woke-relationships/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/feminine-as-f-ck-572383/464-is-polyamory-a-trauma-response-what-no-one-s-saying-about-woke-relationships.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.