# 058: You’re Allowed to Want Things (Desire Isn’t Selfish!) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554/058-you-re-allowed-to-want-things-desire-isn-t-selfish Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554/058-you-re-allowed-to-want-things-desire-isn-t-selfish.md Podcast: [F*ck Confidence: The Empowerment Studio Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554) Published: 2026-04-15T12:35:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/n0MdkyZPDA/90f679be-cee4-42cd-a5d5-4475315535bb.mp3 Audio file: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/n0MdkyZPDA/90f679be-cee4-42cd-a5d5-4475315535bb.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554/episodes/058-you-re-allowed-to-want-things-desire-isn-t-selfish Duration seconds: 1456 ## Resource This episode is a bit of a peek behind the curtain -- we’re right in the middle of running a series of North Star workshops in the Empowerment Experience as we are publishing this episode. It's been so fun! Inside the program, we’ve always set a North Star -- a vision for what you want your life to feel like and where you want to point your compass for the six months of the program. What I started noticing is how much is actually inside that process. “What do I want?” can open up a lottttt. So we're creating even more space for it. The North Star Workshop is now a 3-part experience to help you: get clear on where you are right now be radically honest about what you actually want turn that into a clear direction you can move toward It also brings in something I’m calling practice menus -- ways to take action whether you have five minutes and no energy, or a full afternoon with more capacity. We're aiming to make it feel really achievable to actually begin to make the changes you are craving in your life. This started as a nerdy, late-night idea and is now becoming a deeper layer of the program. I’m really curious to see what it opens up for people. So far it's been really powerful. Lots more to come, I can't wait to update you once we've completed the whole workshop series! 🤳🏼 Get our FREE selfie guide: https://empowermentphotographer.com/selfie 🔗 Sign up for the #SelfietoSelfLove Challenge: selfietoselflove.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram: @empowermentstudio__ 🌐 Learn more about our boudoir sessions and Empowerment Experience: empowermentphotographer.com 👥 Join our Facebook Group: The Empowerment Studio ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554/episodes/058-you-re-allowed-to-want-things-desire-isn-t-selfish/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/f-ck-confidence-the-empowerment-studio-podcast-7078554/058-you-re-allowed-to-want-things-desire-isn-t-selfish.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.