# Ep. 314: Surviving 28 Years Together, Pt. 2: Moving In, Fights, and "I'm Not Happy"

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Podcast: [Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/everything-anything-and-a-bit-gay-podcast-6752108)
Published: 2026-09-17T08:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.everythingandanythingpodcast.com/
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Duration seconds: 2171

## Resource

In Part 2 of his ongoing series on surviving a 28-year relationship, Zach picks up right where he left off: moving in together for the first time, clashing over couches and curtains, and navigating the chaos of blending two households (and egos) into one. He walks listeners through the string of apartments he and husband Andrew shared across Manhattan and Brooklyn, living through 9/11 together, and their eventual move to Miami — including buying their first house. Along the way, Zach gets candid about compromise, control, and who "wins" most arguments in a long relationship. The episode takes a serious turn when Zach recounts one of the hardest nights of their relationship: the moment, seven years in, when Andrew told him he wasn't happy — and the gut-wrenching uncertainty that followed. It's a funny, messy, and ultimately heartfelt look at what really goes into keeping a relationship alive for decades.

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