# Ep. 89 - Laws of Proper Conduct for a Meal - 2 (Siman 42)

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Podcast: [Everyday Judaism · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe](https://stenobird.com/podcast/everyday-judaism-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe-5732422)
Published: 2026-02-15T07:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

In this Everyday Judaism episode, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe concludes Kitzur Shulchan Aruch Siman 42 : the laws of proper conduct during a meal (etiquette, dignity, sensitivity, and practical halachot after hamotzi/netilat yadayim). Key halachot: Leaving the table — Don’t leave during/after meal before Birkas Hamazon (even briefly); if you do, new hamotzi needed unless <72 minutes or someone remains seated (meal continues). Intention to continue elsewhere — If planned at hamotzi, meal continues without new blessing (eat kezayis bread there); but avoid this—recite Birkas Hamazon promptly. Napping/interruptions — Brief nap or restroom doesn’t break meal (wash hands again); no new blessing needed if returning soon. Women & wine — A woman whose husband is absent shouldn’t drink wine/alcohol in public (intoxication risk); if she’s accustomed to drinking with him, she may drink her normal amount. Guests & host food — Don’t take host’s food and give it to their children (may leave host embarrassed/short); ok if abundant. Don’t demand food—wait for invitation. Host’s table — Follow host’s customs; don’t rush or dictate meal pace. The rabbi shares inspiring stories (e.g., son resisting babka before Kiddush; feeding a homeless man for years; guest customs differing between Ashkenazi/Sephardi homes) and stresses spiritual depth: meals are for bonding, dignity, self-control, and gratitude—not gluttony or waste. Eat with nechbadus (respect), sensitivity, and awareness of others. The episode concludes with a transition to the Ask Away #31. _____________ The Everyday Judaism Podcast is dedicated to learning, understanding and appreciating the greatness of Jewish heritage and the Torah through the simplified, concise study of Halacha, Jewish Law, thereby enhancing our understanding…

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