# Ep. 87 - Laws of Proper Conduct for a Meal - 1 (Siman 42)

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Podcast: [Everyday Judaism · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe](https://stenobird.com/podcast/everyday-judaism-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe-5732422)
Published: 2026-02-08T08:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

In this Everyday Judaism episode, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe begins Kitzur Shulchan Aruch Siman 42: proper conduct during a meal (after hamotzi and netilat yadayim). Key halachot: Feed animals first — One who owns animals/fowl must feed them before eating (Torah obligation); humans come first for drinking. No gluttony — Don’t eat/drink while standing; eat/drink in moderation; table must be clean/covered; don’t hold large pieces (>kezayis/egg-size) in hand while eating; don’t gulp wine (2–3 sips ideal unless cup is tiny/large). No interrupting speech — Don’t converse (even Torah) while eating (choking danger); permissible to speak Torah after eating bread but before Birkas Hamazon. Bread etiquette — Don’t bite bread and return it to table/plate (repulsive); don’t throw bread; don’t use bread to support dishes; don’t wash hands with wine/other beverages (degrades them). Salt on table — Mitzvah to have salt (table = altar; preserves covenant; repels evil); dip challah in salt. Food in hand — Don’t eat large quantities directly from hand; tear with other hand (degrades bread). Cleanliness & dignity — Don’t sit on sacks of fruit (degrades them); pick up fallen food; don’t feed fit-for-human food to animals (degrades it); if used medicinally, permissible even if repulsive. Aroma & craving — If food/drink has savory aroma and you crave it, give server a bite immediately (saliva produced is harmful if unmet). Serving & sharing — Don’t give food someone else touched in covered areas; don’t drink from cup and pass it (repulsive); prominent person eats first. The rabbi stresses spiritual depth: food is a gift from Hashem—eat with dignity, gratitude, and self-control (e.g., personal story of son resisting babka temptation before Kiddush). Meals are for bonding, not just sust…

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