# Reimagining The Wedding Ceremony Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/embodied-477109/reimagining-the-wedding-ceremony Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/embodied-477109/reimagining-the-wedding-ceremony.md Podcast: [Embodied](https://stenobird.com/podcast/embodied-477109) Published: 2025-12-25T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://play.prx.org/listen?ge=prx_1580_b3a0cef0-a115-4a46-a3bb-b29047d39351&uf=https%3A%2F%2Fembodied.feed.wunc.org%2F Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/https://mgln.ai/e/1331/dovetail.prxu.org/1580/b3a0cef0-a115-4a46-a3bb-b29047d39351/Embpod_Modern_Marriage_PodPt1.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/embodied-477109/episodes/reimagining-the-wedding-ceremony Duration seconds: 2978 ## Resource The marriage rate in this country has fallen nearly 60% in the last half century. So what’s motivating those of us still choosing to say I do? Anita ponders this question with the Hindu officiant who helped her build a ceremony that bridged the gap between her values and her dad's traditional desires. Plus, a comedian and queer ex-nun explains how she takes people from the place of "marriage is a dumpster fire" to a ceremony they're excited about. Meet the guests: - Raja Gopal Bhattar is a consultant, author and officiant who Anita and her family worked with to design her wedding ceremony - Kelli Dunham , a comedian, nurse and queer ex-nun who officiates weddings and funerals — and refers to herself as "queer secular clergy" Read the transcript | Review the podcast on your preferred platform Follow Embodied on Instagram Leave a message for Embodied If you want to hear more of Satish Rao on Embodied: Mixed (Parent Edition) , where Anita talks to her parents about growing up mixed race Pooped , where Satish gets to share his expertise as a gastroenterologist Please note: This episode originally aired September 26, 2024. Update: Raja Gopal Bhattar released an interactive memoir, “ Queering Constellations: Mapping This Journey Called Life .” ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/embodied-477109/episodes/reimagining-the-wedding-ceremony/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/embodied-477109/reimagining-the-wedding-ceremony.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.