# Designing Your Relationships (Instead of Letting Them Happen by Default) with Diane Rolston (DW3560)

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Podcast: [Dynamic Women®](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dynamic-women-17323)
Published: 2026-03-17T08:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://dynamic-women.captivate.fm/episode/designing-your-relationships-instead-of-letting-them-happen-by-default-with-diane-rolston-dw3560
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## Resource

Have you ever noticed that we design our careers, our homes, even our schedules, but we rarely design our relationships? That means most relationships just happen by default, and we assume they're going to work out. Listen as our host, Diane Rolston, reveals how to design your relationships intentionally instead of letting them happen by default. She shares why healthy relationships don't happen by accident and how to evolve the ones you currently have. Listen to learn these key takeaways: Why most relationships are built by default The 18-year friendship story What you can actually control in designing relationships The Jim Rohn reminder: you are the sum of the five people you spend most time with The redesign conversation that saved a friendship, and Diane's honest response about being a mom with two kids under four Why different relationships need different designs The retired mom story Four simple actions to start designing relationships Diane's vulnerable 50 before 50 challenge How one friend maintains his relationships Want to be invited to join Diane’s NEW high-level, like-minded group of women? Email her at diane@dianerolston.com . Do you prefer reading blogs or watching videos? Read Diane’s blogs here: https://www.dianerolston.com/blog Watch Diane’s videos here: https://www.youtube.com/@CoachDianeRolston This show’s host, Diane Rolston, is called THE Expert on Being Dynamic and living a Dynamic Life. She specializes in coaching high-achieving women who want to be successful AND satisfied. She is a Certified Professional Coach, International Speaker, 11-time Author, and host of the five-time award-winning Dynamic Women Podcast, ranked in the top 2.5% of podcasts. Diane has been recognized with multiple awards for her professional accomplishments and for the pow…

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