# Sticks & Stones

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Podcast: [Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dr-justin-coulson-s-happy-families-49671)
Published: 2026-05-20T19:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://omny.fm/shows/dr-justin-coulsons-happy-families/20260521-sticks-stones
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## Resource

What if the way we talk about “harmful words” is actually making kids more fragile? In this thought-provoking Doctor’s Desk episode, Justin Coulson and Kylie Coulson unpack brand-new research exploring whether believing words are harmful changes our resilience, mental health, and parenting. From social media comments to playground insults, this conversation dives into the uncomfortable tension between empathy and emotional toughness — and asks whether protecting kids from hard words might actually leave them less prepared for the real world. If you’ve ever wondered how to help your child cope with criticism, bullying, or hurtful comments without becoming emotionally overwhelmed, this episode is essential listening. KEY POINTS New research reveals a strong link between believing words are harmful and lower emotional resilience Why empathy and emotional fragility can sometimes go hand-in-hand How “concept creep” may be expanding what we label as trauma The hidden danger of teaching kids they’re emotionally breakable Why resilience starts with helping children interpret words differently The powerful parenting question: “Would you take advice from that person?” How parents can validate feelings without reinforcing victimhood Why difficult conversations may strengthen kids more than shielding them QUOTE OF THE EPISODE “The way we perceive words — and the weight we give them — is ultimately ours to decide.” RESOURCES The “Words Can Harm Scale” research study by Samuel Pratt, Peyton Jones and colleagues Watch Your Words [Article] When Your Child is Bullied: A Calm, Practical Guide for Parents [Article] ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS Teach children that feelings matter, but words do not…

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