# Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage. Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621.md RSS feed: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/podcast/3b266d69-cb98-4467-a8aa-287625944992/UqXyMlH7jf Official site: https://wantingitmorepodcast.com Author: Janna Denton-Howes Episodes: 188 ## Resource Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does. Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others. I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life. If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the… ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621.md ## Episodes - [Mutual Attunement for a Better Sex Life | Ep. 197](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-attunement-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-197) — 2026-06-17T12:00:33+00:00 - [Two Sisters, Two Stories, One Impossible Standard - with Lauren & Christine | Ep. 196](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/two-sisters-two-stories-one-impossible-standard-with-lauren-christine-ep-196) — 2026-06-09T14:23:21+00:00 - [Men, Marriage, and the Conversations We Were Never Taught to Have - with Brian | Ep. 195](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/men-marriage-and-the-conversations-we-were-never-taught-to-have-with-brian-ep-195) — 2026-06-02T12:00:00+00:00 - [Real Couples, Real Stories, Real Change: Inside Doing It Together | Ep. 194](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/real-couples-real-stories-real-change-inside-doing-it-together-ep-194) — 2026-05-26T13:00:00+00:00 - [What It Really Feels Like to Go Through Doing It Together- with Justin | Ep.192](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/what-it-really-feels-like-to-go-through-doing-it-together-with-justin-ep-192) — 2026-05-19T13:26:45+00:00 - [The Hidden Reason Sex Started Feeling Unsafe - with Erica | Ep. 192](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/the-hidden-reason-sex-started-feeling-unsafe-with-erica-ep-192) — 2026-05-13T15:07:45+00:00 - [Why “Meeting His Needs” Is Killing Your Desire - with Dr. Lori Brotto | Ep. 191](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-meeting-his-needs-is-killing-your-desire-with-dr-lori-brotto-ep-191) — 2026-05-05T12:00:21+00:00 - [Why Your Partner Isn’t Hearing You (Yet) - with Anthony | Ep. 190](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-your-partner-isn-t-hearing-you-yet-with-anthony-ep-190) — 2026-04-28T14:33:07+00:00 - [Why Intercourse Doesn’t Feel Good for Many Women - with Anne | Ep.189](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-intercourse-doesn-t-feel-good-for-many-women-with-anne-ep-189) — 2026-04-22T14:31:34+00:00 - [6 Stories That Show You’re Not Alone in Your Sex Life Struggles | Ep. 188](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/6-stories-that-show-you-re-not-alone-in-your-sex-life-struggles-ep-188) — 2026-04-16T12:00:23+00:00 - [Breaking the "Duty Sex" Cycle in Marriage - with Jo | Ep. 187](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/breaking-the-duty-sex-cycle-in-marriage-with-jo-ep-187) — 2026-04-08T18:54:50+00:00 - [When You Feel You're the 'Broken One' in Your Relationship - with Liz | Ep. 186](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/when-you-feel-you-re-the-broken-one-in-your-relationship-with-liz-ep-186) — 2026-04-01T15:07:31+00:00 - [Mutual Vulnerability for a Better Sex Life | Ep. 185](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/mutual-vulnerability-for-a-better-sex-life-ep-185) — 2026-03-11T13:00:20+00:00 - [Improving Gender Equality at Home - with author Kate Mangino | Ep. 184](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/improving-gender-equality-at-home-with-author-kate-mangino-ep-184) — 2026-03-03T15:47:31+00:00 - [We Burned Our Sex Life Down & Built Something Better - with DeeDee | Ep. 183](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/we-burned-our-sex-life-down-built-something-better-with-deedee-ep-183) — 2026-02-24T16:32:54+00:00 - [Anxiety & Sex: What Men and Women Feel | Ep. 182](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/anxiety-sex-what-men-and-women-feel-ep-182) — 2026-02-11T15:54:41+00:00 - [Navigating Sex Addiction as a Black Man - with Dr. Kervins Clement | Ep. 181](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/navigating-sex-addiction-as-a-black-man-with-dr-kervins-clement-ep-181) — 2026-02-03T15:43:55+00:00 - [RE-AIR: Details of a Sex Life Two Years Post Doing It Together - with Justin & Sandra | Ep. 180](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/re-air-details-of-a-sex-life-two-years-post-doing-it-together-with-justin-sandra-ep-180) — 2026-01-27T16:38:48+00:00 - [Why Trying Harder Is Making Your Sex Life Worse | Ep. 179](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-trying-harder-is-making-your-sex-life-worse-ep-179) — 2026-01-21T15:42:26+00:00 - [For Men: How to Reduce Pressure for Better Sex - with Justin | Ep. 178](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/for-men-how-to-reduce-pressure-for-better-sex-with-justin-ep-178) — 2026-01-13T13:00:04+00:00 - [Low Libido & Bad Sex- What Women Don't Say | Ep. 177](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/low-libido-bad-sex-what-women-don-t-say-ep-177) — 2026-01-06T15:25:59+00:00 - [The Power of a Sex Reset | Ep. 176](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/the-power-of-a-sex-reset-ep-176) — 2025-12-30T13:00:00+00:00 - [When Your Husband Wants Sex and You Feel Anxious | Ep. 175](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/when-your-husband-wants-sex-and-you-feel-anxious-ep-175) — 2025-12-23T13:00:00+00:00 - [The Expectations for Sex on Special Occasions | Ep. 174](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/the-expectations-for-sex-on-special-occasions-ep-174) — 2025-12-16T18:39:17+00:00 - [Why Sex Often Doesn't Feel Good For Women | Ep. 173](https://stenobird.com/podcast/doing-it-together-making-sense-of-low-libido-sex-and-intimacy-in-marriage-5614621/why-sex-often-doesn-t-feel-good-for-women-ep-173) — 2025-12-09T19:06:09+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. 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