# Watch Me — The Most Intimate Thing Most Couples Have Never Tried

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Podcast: [Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275)
Published: 2026-09-08T15:24:26+00:00
Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/c094a17f
Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/c094a17f/0591f510.mp3
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Duration seconds: 3333

## Resource

Scott wants to try mutual masturbation. Brittney is hesitant. Neither of them has done it yet and rather than pretend otherwise, they decided to make that honesty the episode. In Episode 46, Scott and Brittney tackle one of the most commonly cited intimate experiences couples are curious about and one of the least acted upon. Scott represents the eager partner — genuinely excited by what the research says this experience offers, and honest about why he wants it. Brittney represents the hesitant partner — intellectually interested in the science, personally uncertain about the specific vulnerability it requires, and honest about what she'd need before it felt right. Together they cover what mutual masturbation actually is, what watching your partner pleasure themselves teaches you that nothing else does, why the vulnerability is both the most uncomfortable and most intimate part, and the specific dynamic between an eager partner and a hesitant one — what both sides need to hear, and what both sides tend to get wrong. For couples who are both ready: a complete practical framework for doing it for the first time. For couples who aren't aligned yet: language for the conversation that actually moves things forward. In this episode: What mutual masturbation actually is and what it offers that partnered sex doesn't automatically provide Why it's on so many couples' lists and why it stays there What watching your partner pleasure themselves teaches you that nothing else does The vulnerability component — why being witnessed is both the most uncomfortable and most intimate part Scott's honest take: why the research has him genuinely excited Brittney's honest take: the specific self-consciousness and what she'd need before this felt right The eager partner vs. hesitant partner d…

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