# The Female Orgasm — What Most Men Still Don't Understand Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275/the-female-orgasm-what-most-men-still-don-t-understand Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275/the-female-orgasm-what-most-men-still-don-t-understand.md Podcast: [Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275) Published: 2026-04-28T15:05:35+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/c6b9e5cf Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/c6b9e5cf/a1ebdc89.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275/episodes/the-female-orgasm-what-most-men-still-don-t-understand Duration seconds: 2365 ## Resource The orgasm gap is one of the most documented — and least honestly discussed — realities in sexual research. In heterosexual sex, men orgasm 95% of the time. Women? 65%. And that gap isn't a body problem. It's an information and attention problem. In Episode 29, Scott and Brittney tackle the female orgasm head-on — covering the anatomy most couples were never taught, the research on what actually works, and the conversation most heterosexual couples have never had. Scott shares what changed when he actually understood the anatomy. Brittney shares what it felt like before and after those conversations happened. This is the episode for every man who thought he understood this — and every woman who has spent years feeling like her pleasure was optional. In this episode: The orgasm gap by the numbers — and why the lesbian orgasm rate reveals everything The full anatomy of the clitoris — why it's nothing like what most people were taught Less than 10% of women orgasm from penetration alone — what that means for your sex life The four research-identified clitoral stimulation techniques most couples have never tried Why faking orgasm guarantees the gap continues — and what to do instead The specific behaviors most strongly associated with female orgasm The conversation every couple needs to have — and how to start it tonight Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle , our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and bui… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275/episodes/the-female-orgasm-what-most-men-still-don-t-understand/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-you-feel-that-a-couples-intimacy-sex-podcast-7499275/the-female-orgasm-what-most-men-still-don-t-understand.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.