# Dating App Green Flags, Red Flags, & Hell No's

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Podcast: [Do As We Say, Not As They Did](https://stenobird.com/podcast/do-as-we-say-not-as-they-did-7726812)
Published: 2026-04-22T09:30:00+00:00
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## Resource

How detailed do you get in your dating app profile? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O'Malley kick things off with a look at r/AskWomenNoCensor, where a man asks women what they want. To no one's surprise, men were quick to jump in with their opinions. Harris and Dr. Liz discuss the merits of listening to the people you want to date (because, surprise, surprise, there is no female hivemind), personalizing your dating profile, and showing a genuine interest in people. Highlights of the episode: An impromptu cooking lesson (inspired by a chicken breast & Crystal Light smoothie 🤢) A rant about AI dating profiles A loving reminder to be quirky, weird, and interesting Get out a pen and paper and get ready to take notes. Dr. Liz and Harris are going to help you make sure your dating profile is ready to reel in people who are truly interested in you. Time Stamps 00:00 - Introductions 00:50 - Ep 3 updates 06:30 - r/AskWomenNoCensor 09:00 - Read my profile, first! 15:00 - Communication styles 20:00 - You don't have to force a fit 23:00 - Are you actually interested in other people? 28:00 - Be truthful on your profile 35:00 - Let's talk about this AI-bio 40:00 - Tell us who you are! 56:00 - Don't date people you're ashamed to be seen with 01:06:00 - Your preferences might just be social conditioning 01:28:00 - The chicken smoothie 01:30:00 - Red flag, green flag 01:38:00 - Final thoughts Stay Connected 📩 Business Inquiries: doaswesaypod@gmail.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doaswesaypod/ 💙 BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/doaswesaypod.bsky.social 🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/DoAsWeSayPod 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/doaswesaypod ⏰ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@DoAsWeSayPod

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