# Dating Red Flags: Cray—The App That Could Save Your Heart Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915/dating-red-flags-cray-the-app-that-could-save-your-heart Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915/dating-red-flags-cray-the-app-that-could-save-your-heart.md Podcast: [Digital Dating with Anonymous Andrew](https://stenobird.com/podcast/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915) Published: 2026-06-29T11:52:49+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.com/podcasts/anonymousandrew/2947251 Audio file: https://content.rss.com/episodes/192339/2947251/anonymousandrew/2026_06_27_18_10_14_7de39efe-e7e4-4352-a5b2-efe5031beb46.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915/episodes/dating-red-flags-cray-the-app-that-could-save-your-heart Duration seconds: 3801 ## Resource Summary In this episode of Digital Dating Over 50, host Andrew interviews Justin Smith, the founder of the Cray app, designed to enhance relationship safety by identifying red flags and manipulative behaviors. Justin shares his personal journey of betrayal that led him to create the app, emphasizing the importance of recognizing warning signs in relationships. The conversation explores the app's features, including the Cray Score and Schemer Score, which help users assess their partners' behaviors. The discussion also highlights the app's relevance for older adults navigating the dating landscape after significant life changes, such as divorce or loss. In this conversation, Justin Smith discusses the challenges of modern dating, including the prevalence of scams and the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships. He emphasizes the need for technology to enhance dating safety and proposes innovative solutions through his app, Cray. The discussion also touches on generational differences in dating behaviors and the potential for creating safer dating environments. Justin shares insights on love bombing and accountability in relationships, while also addressing the skepticism surrounding dating apps and technology. S5-Ep#3 Justin Smith contact: Cray App Website Instagram TikTok Linkedin Want to be a guest on the podcast? Send Andrew a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/member/anonymousandrewpodcast Please buy me a cup of coffee! Proud Member of the Podmatch Network! A Production of the Anonymous Andrew Podcast Studios Digital Dating Over 5o Podcast Cultimatum Podcast-The Culture of Cults The Weekend Rant with Anonymous Andrew Anonymous Website: Discord Chat Invite Link: https://discord.gg/mS7RAe4gGD Instagram: TikTok: Threads: Facebook: YouTube: ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915/episodes/dating-red-flags-cray-the-app-that-could-save-your-heart/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/digital-dating-with-anonymous-andrew-6064915/dating-red-flags-cray-the-app-that-could-save-your-heart.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.