# Sian Morgan-Crossley: How to manage emotionally immature parents at Christmas Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/dial-emma-5229217/sian-morgan-crossley-how-to-manage-emotionally-immature-parents-at-christmas Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/dial-emma-5229217/sian-morgan-crossley-how-to-manage-emotionally-immature-parents-at-christmas.md Podcast: [Dial Emma](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dial-emma-5229217) Published: 2025-12-08T00:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://dial-emma.captivate.fm Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/2ed97de0-f6fb-49f1-bbaf-d94a46ec436e.mp3?aw_0_1st.showid=55a7e298-840a-4d74-83ea-9b2f7b730a36&aw_0_1st.episodeid=2ed97de0-f6fb-49f1-bbaf-d94a46ec436e Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dial-emma-5229217/episodes/sian-morgan-crossley-how-to-manage-emotionally-immature-parents-at-christmas Duration seconds: 2508 ## Resource Welcome back to Dial Emma! Each week, I'll be answering your dilemmas with honesty, empathy, and a few therapeutic truth bombs to help you make sense of life's stickiest moments. If you've ever wished you had a therapist in your back pocket, Dial Emma is here to help. In this week's episode, I'm joined by psychotherapist, author and founder of Break the Cycle Coaching Sian Morgan-Crossley to unpack a festive dilemma around the challenges of dealing with emotionally immature parents. Our listener writes about the feeling of being 'rewound' to her anxious, apologetic teenage self when visiting her family for Christmas, a dynamic that feels increasingly harmful and unsafe. Sian and I explore the complexities of parent-child relationships as children grow older and differentiate themselves from their family system, the damaging impact of emotional immaturity, and strategies for managing expectations and maintaining one's sense of self during family occasions. We also touch on the importance of self-care, setting meaningful boundaries, and understanding the difference between concern and genuine care. Thank you so much to Sian for joining me! You can pre-order her brand new book, How to Heal from Emotionally Immature Parents , here: https://hayhs.com/hthfeip_pp_pb_az If you have a dilemma for Emma, please fill out this form.  --- Dial Emma is hosted by Emma Reed Turrell, produced by Lauren Brook. --- Social media: Emma Reed Turrell @emmareedturrell Dial Emma @dialemmapodcast Email: contact@dial-emma.uk ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/dial-emma-5229217/episodes/sian-morgan-crossley-how-to-manage-emotionally-immature-parents-at-christmas/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/dial-emma-5229217/sian-morgan-crossley-how-to-manage-emotionally-immature-parents-at-christmas.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.