# A Couple Breaks Up. Who Gets Custody of Their Embryos? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos.md Podcast: [Deborah Lebree's podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113) Published: 2026-09-10T09:45:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos--75046999 Audio file: https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/75046999/default.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113/episodes/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos Duration seconds: 2730 ## Resource As more people in the United States use I.V.F. to have children, embryos are being stored in fertility clinics across the country. It raises the question: What should happen to those embryos if a couple breaks up?Caroline Kitchener, who covers families for The New York Times, tells the story of Erin Millender, who took a custody battle over frozen embryos to court after her husband revoked his consent to use them.Guest: Caroline Kitchener , a New York Times reporter, writing about the American family.Background reading: They started I.V.F., and then split. Now who gets custody of the embryos ? Photo: Kim Raff for The New York Times For more information on today’s episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily . Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher . For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113/episodes/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/deborah-lebree-s-podcast-7041113/a-couple-breaks-up-who-gets-custody-of-their-embryos.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.