# Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Safi and talk people pleasing, finding love on the apps, gay divorce, needing reassurance as an adult, healing family wounds, and both Jason Alexanders

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Podcast: [Dads And Daddies](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903)
Published: 2026-07-07T07:15:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 5340

## Resource

Brian and Judson are joined by Emmy Award–winning writer, actor and comedian Bryan Safi! Bryan tells Brian and Judson all about his off-Broadway solo show, Are You Mad at Me?, his eight years so far on Ryan Murphy’s “9-1-1” alongside Angela Bassett, Peter Krause and Jennifer Love Hewitt, and his pioneering, near 15-year career as a podcaster. He details his obsession with grocery stores, compares notes with Brian and Judson on finding love while looking for sex online, shares the details about why his marriage ended in divorce, reveals his need for reassurance from someone in a position of authority, and talks about healing the long-contentious relationship with his conservative parents. The three also talk about some of their favorite celebs from the 80s and 90s like Joan Rivers, Mr. T, Britney Spears and both Jason Alexanders. Bryan then helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who is finding himself so horny that he can’t figure out how to satisfy his needs.

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