# Dads And Daddies

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Official site: https://bleav.com/shows/dad-and-daddies/
Author: Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow
Episodes: 120

## Resource

Dads and Daddies features frank, unrehearsed conversations between one Gen X Dad of two and one Millennial self-identified ‘Daddy,’ with a focus on their personal stories of sex, love and marriage, plus topics spanning parenthood, Daddyhood, family, friendship, identity, money, addiction & recovery, and so many more that reveal the deeply intimate details of what it means to live life as adult gay men today.

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## Episodes
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Gay Tired Hopeful’s Andrew Abel and talk commodotizing sex, gay exhaustion, being born polyamorous and insatiable bottoms](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-gay-tired-hopeful-s-andrew-abel-and-talk-commodotizing-sex-gay-exhaustion-being-born-polyamorous-and-insatiable-bottoms) — 2026-09-08T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with top anal health expert in the US, Dr. Evan Goldstein, and take questions on douching, STIs, scarring and depth play, and also talk reluctant parenthood, Martha Stewart’s allyship, and the mindf*ck of turning 50](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-have-a-repeat-hookup-with-top-anal-health-expert-in-the-us-dr-evan-goldstein-and-take-questions-on-douching-stis-scarring-and-depth-play-and-also-talk-reluctant-parenthood-martha-stewart-s-allyship-and-t) — 2026-09-01T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Kink for Dummies’ co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana and talk making a better world through kink, finding your inner kinkster, marrying your best friend, the variants of jealousy in open relationships and so much more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-kink-for-dummies-co-author-jack-harrison-quintana-and-talk-making-a-better-world-through-kink-finding-your-inner-kinkster-marrying-your-best-friend-the-variants-of-jealousy-in-open-relationsh) — 2026-08-25T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson have a fivesome with repeat hookups Jonah Wheeler, Joel Someone, and Daddy Kylex and talk helping each other navigate the gay porn industry, making spontaneous content together, consent for love language, and transparency on the apps](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-have-a-fivesome-with-repeat-hookups-jonah-wheeler-joel-someone-and-daddy-kylex-and-talk-helping-each-other-navigate-the-gay-porn-industry-making-spontaneous-content-together-consent-for-love-language-and) — 2026-08-18T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Eliot Glazer and talk giving voice to disastrous gays, laughing at sex parties, queer sports league trauma and learning Gen Z vocab by dating an Insta hottie](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-eliot-glazer-and-talk-giving-voice-to-disastrous-gays-laughing-at-sex-parties-queer-sports-league-trauma-and-learning-gen-z-vocab-by-dating-an-insta-hottie) — 2026-08-11T07:15:00+00:00
- [DR. DADDY IS BACK! Brian and Judson hookup with Dr. Demetre Daskalakis again and talk protecting LGBTQ+ people from syndemics; the present and future of PrEP;  the dire need in the U.S, for universal healthcare,  and queer self-care as rebellion](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/dr-daddy-is-back-brian-and-judson-hookup-with-dr-demetre-daskalakis-again-and-talk-protecting-lgbtq-people-from-syndemics-the-present-and-future-of-prep-the-dire-need-in-the-u-s-for-universal-healthcare-and-queer-self-ca) — 2026-08-04T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Owning Manhattan’ star and Queerity app founder Jordan Hurt and talk the road from gutter to high-rise, being sober on the apps, sharing his rock bottom moment on TV, and confronting friends struggling with addiction](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-owning-manhattan-star-and-queerity-app-founder-jordan-hurt-and-talk-the-road-from-gutter-to-high-rise-being-sober-on-the-apps-sharing-his-rock-bottom-moment-on-tv-and-confronting-friends-stru) — 2026-07-28T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Daddyhunt founder and CEO Carl Sandler and talk treating each other right on and off the apps, what it takes to be a good son, keeping Daddies alive and the importance of gay friendships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-daddyhunt-founder-and-ceo-carl-sandler-and-talk-treating-each-other-right-on-and-off-the-apps-what-it-takes-to-be-a-good-son-keeping-daddies-alive-and-the-importance-of-gay-friendships) — 2026-07-21T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Finding Fire Island creator Jess Rothschild and talk queer history, lesbian divorce, being a gay woman who prefers the company of men, and whether honesty is always the best policy when dating](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-finding-fire-island-creator-jess-rothschild-and-talk-queer-history-lesbian-divorce-being-a-gay-woman-who-prefers-the-company-of-men-and-whether-honesty-is-always-the-best-policy-when-dating) — 2026-07-14T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Bryan Safi and talk people pleasing, finding love on the apps, gay divorce, needing reassurance as an adult, healing family wounds, and both Jason Alexanders](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-bryan-safi-and-talk-people-pleasing-finding-love-on-the-apps-gay-divorce-needing-reassurance-as-an-adult-healing-family-wounds-and-both-jason-alexanders) — 2026-07-07T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Justin Elizabeth Sayre and talk aging as a queer person without role models, fleeing the US to find safety as a non-binary person, misrepresentation on the apps, and communication in open relationships](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-justin-elizabeth-sayre-and-talk-aging-as-a-queer-person-without-role-models-fleeing-the-us-to-find-safety-as-a-non-binary-person-misrepresentation-on-the-apps-and-communication-in-open-relati) — 2026-06-30T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Peppermint and talk trading the Pride march for trans health care, Lady Gaga’s Drag Race demands, dating as a trans woman, bringing Black culture to predominantly white spaces and so much more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-peppermint-and-talk-trading-the-pride-march-for-trans-health-care-lady-gaga-s-drag-race-demands-dating-as-a-trans-woman-bringing-black-culture-to-predominantly-white-spaces-and-so-much-more) — 2026-06-23T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson have a repeat hookup with Nasty Pig founder and CEO David Lauterstein and talk queer visibility, aging Daddy bottoms, the power of touch, bringing friends into the marital bed, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-have-a-repeat-hookup-with-nasty-pig-founder-and-ceo-david-lauterstein-and-talk-queer-visibility-aging-daddy-bottoms-the-power-of-touch-bringing-friends-into-the-marital-bed-and-more) — 2026-06-16T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with ‘Blue Film’ writer and director Elliot Tuttle and talk adolescent sexuality, slippery morality, what overindexing on queer joy does to taste levels, and Daddying vs fathering](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-blue-film-writer-and-director-elliot-tuttle-and-talk-adolescent-sexuality-slippery-morality-what-overindexing-on-queer-joy-does-to-taste-levels-and-daddying-vs-fathering) — 2026-06-09T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson celebrate the launch of Season Three with a Go Ask Your Dad Extravaganza and talk open relationship rules, self-care routines, sex party connections, unpredictable libidos, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-celebrate-the-launch-of-season-three-with-a-go-ask-your-dad-extravaganza-and-talk-open-relationship-rules-self-care-routines-sex-party-connections-unpredictable-libidos-and-more) — 2026-06-02T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Kevin Aviance and talk the pressures of being an icon, making Beyoncé c*nty, ballroom history, what it means to be a Black Queen today, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-kevin-aviance-and-talk-the-pressures-of-being-an-icon-making-beyonc-c-nty-ballroom-history-what-it-means-to-be-a-black-queen-today-and-more) — 2026-05-26T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Zachary Zane and talk Bisexual Audibility, the joys of bottoming, being brave about sex when sober, the value of anger, whether top shortages are a myth, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-zachary-zane-and-talk-bisexual-audibility-the-joys-of-bottoming-being-brave-about-sex-when-sober-the-value-of-anger-whether-top-shortages-are-a-myth-and-more) — 2026-05-19T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Nick Wolny and talk generating wealth as queer people, whether poppers are an essential expense, accepting our social inheritances, preparing emotionally and financially for gay events, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-nick-wolny-and-talk-generating-wealth-as-queer-people-whether-poppers-are-an-essential-expense-accepting-our-social-inheritances-preparing-emotionally-and-financially-for-gay-events-and-more) — 2026-05-12T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with The Disappointments creator and star Rich Burns and talk regrets after 50, the path from connection to kink, who decides who’s a Daddy, scheduling sex and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-the-disappointments-creator-and-star-rich-burns-and-talk-regrets-after-50-the-path-from-connection-to-kink-who-decides-who-s-a-daddy-scheduling-sex-and-more) — 2026-05-05T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson celebrate 100 episodes with Cats: The Jellicle Ball’s Sydney James Harcourt and talk sex with straight men, preferring faceless Grindr profiles, his affair with Andy Cohen, recognizing realness as a trauma response, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-celebrate-100-episodes-with-cats-the-jellicle-ball-s-sydney-james-harcourt-and-talk-sex-with-straight-men-preferring-faceless-grindr-profiles-his-affair-with-andy-cohen-recognizing-realness-as-a-trauma-r) — 2026-04-28T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Claybourne Elder and talk growing up Mormon and gay, wanting to be evil, aging in the public eye, and gay wedding planning](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-claybourne-elder-and-talk-growing-up-mormon-and-gay-wanting-to-be-evil-aging-in-the-public-eye-and-gay-wedding-planning) — 2026-04-21T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with John Paul Brammer and talk about giving advice to the international LGBTQ community, choosing between religions, hookup etiquette, managing queer-specific anxieties, and more](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-john-paul-brammer-and-talk-about-giving-advice-to-the-international-lgbtq-community-choosing-between-religions-hookup-etiquette-managing-queer-specific-anxieties-and-more) — 2026-04-14T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Bright Light Bright Light and talk career building as an independent artist, befriending your heroes, hypocrisy within the queer community and whether sex is an interesting subject for music](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-bright-light-bright-light-and-talk-career-building-as-an-independent-artist-befriending-your-heroes-hypocrisy-within-the-queer-community-and-whether-sex-is-an-interesting-subject-for-music) — 2026-04-07T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Grey Henson and talk the sexual appeal of Bigfoot, the challenges of dating as an actor, Daddy physique vs energy, and moving past the fear of new connections](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-grey-henson-and-talk-the-sexual-appeal-of-bigfoot-the-challenges-of-dating-as-an-actor-daddy-physique-vs-energy-and-moving-past-the-fear-of-new-connections) — 2026-03-31T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Eric Williams and talk being slut podcasters comparing coasts, making bad money, and sleeping with friends](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-eric-williams-and-talk-being-slut-podcasters-comparing-coasts-making-bad-money-and-sleeping-with-friends) — 2026-03-24T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with John-Andrew Morrison and talk being husband to Jane, Jinkx, Hannah and John Cameron, careers reclaimed through sobriety, afternoon nookie, and loving yourself enough to be late for your house](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-john-andrew-morrison-and-talk-being-husband-to-jane-jinkx-hannah-and-john-cameron-careers-reclaimed-through-sobriety-afternoon-nookie-and-loving-yourself-enough-to-be-late-for-your-house) — 2026-03-17T07:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Mike Fails and Gina Spears and talk queer friendships, surviving trauma, the quest to bottom and messy hookups](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-mike-fails-and-gina-spears-and-talk-queer-friendships-surviving-trauma-the-quest-to-bottom-and-messy-hookups) — 2026-03-10T07:15:00+00:00
- [Friendly Fire with Brian and Judson, in which they talk hooking up on a family cruise, sex for the sake of the story, the treatment of women by gay men, and how deep the friendship with a friend-with-benefits should be](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/friendly-fire-with-brian-and-judson-in-which-they-talk-hooking-up-on-a-family-cruise-sex-for-the-sake-of-the-story-the-treatment-of-women-by-gay-men-and-how-deep-the-friendship-with-a-friend-with-benefits-should-be) — 2026-03-03T08:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Honey Davenport and talk bridging the drag and leather communities, the importance of Dads, Daddies and Drag Mothers, starting activism young, and navigating the apps as a non-binary person](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-honey-davenport-and-talk-bridging-the-drag-and-leather-communities-the-importance-of-dads-daddies-and-drag-mothers-starting-activism-young-and-navigating-the-apps-as-a-non-binary-person) — 2026-02-24T08:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Timothy Westbrook and talk Project Runway secrets, designing fashion from a place without shame, blindfolded hookups, and sex with a disability](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-timothy-westbrook-and-talk-project-runway-secrets-designing-fashion-from-a-place-without-shame-blindfolded-hookups-and-sex-with-a-disability) — 2026-02-17T08:15:00+00:00
- [Brian and Judson hookup with Jason Veasey and talk Best Medicine, his secret to a successful long-term relationship, reclaiming sexuality after the HIV diagnosis, and advocating for queer Black-on-Black love on TV](https://stenobird.com/podcast/dads-and-daddies-6901903/brian-and-judson-hookup-with-jason-veasey-and-talk-best-medicine-his-secret-to-a-successful-long-term-relationship-reclaiming-sexuality-after-the-hiv-diagnosis-and-advocating-for-queer-black-on-black-love-on-tv) — 2026-02-10T08:15:00+00:00

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