# Confessions of a New Manager: How to Set Your New Leaders Up for Success Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success.md Podcast: [Crucial Skills | Management & Accountability](https://stenobird.com/podcast/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858) Published: 2026-06-16T10:00:02+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success--72543327 Audio file: https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72543327/06022026_v1_cl_06_16_26.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858/episodes/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success Duration seconds: 1785 ## Resource Stepping into a management role for the first time is harder than most new bosses let on, and harder than most employees realize. Joseph Grenny shares findings from a study conducted with new managers, revealing four surprising "confessions" about how new leaders see themselves and how their teams actually experience them. The data paints a picture of what organizations are getting wrong about preparing people for leadership positions. Joseph also draws on 35 years of research to argue that the most important measure of a leader's effectiveness is the lag time between when a problem is recognized and when it is actually talked about. By using real-world scenarios, he walks through the most common mistakes new managers make when conflict arises, and offers a framework for holding important and effective conversations. Chapters [Start] The Four Confessions: Joseph Grenny introduces research on new managers, framing four key findings around how managers and employees perceive the transition into leadership. 02:11 Confessions 1 & 2: Why new bosses are hiding their uncertainty, and a look at how managers and employees disagree on what earned the promotion. 06:36 Confessions 3 & 4: The struggle for new managers to delegate without micromanaging, and issues with leadership training. 10:22 The Central Challenge: Research across 35 years that points to one defining skill gap between managers and employees. 22:16 Choosing the Right Conversation: Why most people chase the wrong topic in crucial moments, and a three-level framework for getting to the real issue. Links and Resources Crucial Learning Leadership Confessions - ebook Crucial Conversations for Accountability Learn more about Joseph Grenny here. The Crucial Skills Podcast is brought to you by the authors and expe… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858/episodes/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/crucial-skills-management-accountability-7795858/confessions-of-a-new-manager-how-to-set-your-new-leaders-up-for-success.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.