# From People-Pleasing to Boundaries: Creating Internal Safety | Barb Nangle Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/conversations-with-sekani-7811756/from-people-pleasing-to-boundaries-creating-internal-safety-barb-nangle Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/conversations-with-sekani-7811756/from-people-pleasing-to-boundaries-creating-internal-safety-barb-nangle.md Podcast: [Conversations with Sekani](https://stenobird.com/podcast/conversations-with-sekani-7811756) Published: 2026-09-05T02:17:21+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joyokolobi/episodes/From-People-Pleasing-to-Boundaries-Creating-Internal-Safety--Barb-Nangle-e3obqgv Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/10c92455c/podcast/play/125216735/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-8-4%2F431201281-44100-2-41ccb3db51775.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/conversations-with-sekani-7811756/episodes/from-people-pleasing-to-boundaries-creating-internal-safety-barb-nangle Duration seconds: 1505 ## Resource Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and host of the Fragmented to Whole podcast. After decades of therapy and personal development, she discovered that lasting change wasn’t about gaining more insight — it was about creating internal safety. Today, she helps women build healthy boundaries, stop overgiving, and develop stronger relationships with themselves and others. In this honest conversation, Barb shares: • How her childhood looked “normal” but left her without emotional safety • Unhealthy coping skills she developed young • What she wishes her younger self understood about boundaries • Why adults can still learn boundaries even if they were never taught • How 12-step recovery and codependence work led her to this path • Her Inner Safety Skill Building Method for lasting change If you’re in your 20s (or beyond) tired of people-pleasing, overgiving, or struggling to set boundaries, this episode offers practical hope and real tools. Timestamps below ⬇️ #BarbNangle #Boundaries #InternalSafety #PeoplePleasing #ConversationsWithSekani Connect with Barb Nangle Website: https://higherpowercc.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbnangle/ If conversations with Sekani sparks something in you, do well to share to someone who you think might need this. Subscribe so you don’t miss new episodes. If you have a minute leaving a review helps more people discover these everyday unique voices and the insight they carry. Your support means the world. Want to be a guest on Conversation with Sekani? Send a message to Joy https://www.podmatch.com/member/conversationswithsekani Chapters 0:00 - Intro & Welcome Barb Nangle 1:40 - Childhood That Looked “Normal” 8:15 - Unhealthy Coping Skills & Early Patterns 15:30 - Discovering Childhood Trauma in Recovery 23:10 - Wh… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/conversations-with-sekani-7811756/episodes/from-people-pleasing-to-boundaries-creating-internal-safety-barb-nangle/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/conversations-with-sekani-7811756/from-people-pleasing-to-boundaries-creating-internal-safety-barb-nangle.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.