# 280.  Why Your Leadership Skills Are Killing Your Growth (And What to Do Instead) - Dr. J.J. Peterson

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Podcast: [Contractor Evolution](https://stenobird.com/podcast/contractor-evolution-3408199)
Published: 2026-07-08T09:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 3433

## Resource

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