# How Porn Affects Connection in Relationships Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/consider-before-consuming-86502/how-porn-affects-connection-in-relationships Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/consider-before-consuming-86502/how-porn-affects-connection-in-relationships.md Podcast: [Consider Before Consuming](https://stenobird.com/podcast/consider-before-consuming-86502) Published: 2026-05-13T09:00:15+00:00 Episode link: https://redcircle.com/shows/352266a5-0ec0-4cd9-9114-12b5a62c09e6/episodes/1b670acd-3b54-4d5c-a95f-306997dcd888 Audio file: https://audio2.redcircle.com/episodes/1b670acd-3b54-4d5c-a95f-306997dcd888/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/consider-before-consuming-86502/episodes/how-porn-affects-connection-in-relationships Duration seconds: 2853 ## Resource In this episode of Consider Before Consuming, we’re joined by Dr. Nicholas Lawless, a clinical psychologist and couples therapist, to explore how pornography can impact connection in relationships. Does porn affect relationships? Can porn change how you see your partner? Is watching porn considered cheating? Why does porn sometimes feel like a betrayal? Dr. Lawless shares what he’s seen in both research and real-life couples—how shifts in attention and expectations can lead to disconnection over time, and what it looks like to rebuild connection. If you’re wondering whether porn is affecting your relationship, or how to reconnect if something feels off, this episode offers a clear, practical perspective. This episode is sponsored by Relay, a secure peer-support app that connects you with a small group of people who understand what you’re going through and help you stay accountable on your journey to quit porn. CBC listeners can try Relay free for 7 days when they sign up at http://ftnd.org/joinrelay Episode Resources: Articles: How Porn Can Impact Relationships Documentary: Brain, Heart, World Dr. Lawless' Practice: DRT Psychology Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/consider-before-consuming-86502/episodes/how-porn-affects-connection-in-relationships/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/consider-before-consuming-86502/how-porn-affects-connection-in-relationships.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.