# 41 | This Is KILLING Sex In Your Christian Marriage (and how to fix it) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it.md Podcast: [Connected Christian Wife | Intimacy, Date Nights, Quality Time, My Happy Marriage, Effective Communication](https://stenobird.com/podcast/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006) Published: 2026-07-14T13:14:05+00:00 Episode link: https://theprayerfulwife.podbean.com/e/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it/ Audio file: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/a4wa9jpwqn8va8sf/41_This_Is_KILLING_Sex_In_Your_Christian_Marriage_and_how_to_fix_t.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006/episodes/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it Duration seconds: 2073 ## Resource If you have ever felt too exhausted for sex in your Christian marriage — not because you don't love your husband, but because you are running on empty and not feeling emotionally supported — this episode is for you.Today I'm breaking down what emotional intimacy actually is, why it is the foundation your sex life is built on, and giving you a clear, step-by-step process for starting to build it — including a conversation to have with your husband that brings you closer rather than starting an argument. In this episode: What emotional intimacy really means — and why your body cannot show up physically without it A five-step process for understanding where your emotional intimacy is and what to do about it How to have an honest conversation with your husband about sex and the mental load — without it turning into a fight Related episode:🎧 Why You Don't Want Sex — and It Has Nothing to Do With Sex: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality/id1786216795?i=1000766236187 Book your Marriage Connection Coaching Call: https://calendly.com/jennifer-jenniferfanning/packages/c1e30222-6dc3-4f87-9dea-a2eb6243e946 💛 Join the FREE Facebook community today and tell me you are doing this week's Marriage Challenge — that is where the real work begins: https://www.facebook.com/groups/connectedchristianwife 📧 Get in touch: info@jenniferfanning.co 📝 Did this episode bless you? Then leave a rating and review ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006/episodes/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/connected-christian-wife-intimacy-date-nights-quality-time-my-happy-marriage-effective-communication-7144006/41-this-is-killing-sex-in-your-christian-marriage-and-how-to-fix-it.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.