# U-Haul University: Stood Up, Stressed Out & Still Looking for Love! Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256/u-haul-university-stood-up-stressed-out-still-looking-for-love Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256/u-haul-university-stood-up-stressed-out-still-looking-for-love.md Podcast: [Coming Out & Beyond | Support for Women Questioning Their Sexuality](https://stenobird.com/podcast/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256) Published: 2026-02-14T04:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://annemariezanzal.com/coming-out-stories-beyond-podcast/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/01ba2f41-4358-419c-96ae-e54f1167b450.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256/episodes/u-haul-university-stood-up-stressed-out-still-looking-for-love Duration seconds: 2795 ## Resource πŸ”₯ Ever get all dressed up for a date... and they never show? Ever wonder if you're too old for love at 43? Ever think maybe lesbian dating culture is just... toxic? Girl, pull up a chair. We're talking about ALL of it in this episode β€” and trust us, you're not alone. πŸ“ž FEELING STUCK IN YOUR DATING LIFE? Dating is hard enough without doing it alone. If you're a sapphic woman feeling stuck, frustrated, or just plain lost when it comes to dating β€” whether you're freshly out, freshly heartbroken, or somewhere in between β€” let's chat. Book a FREE connection call with Barbara β€” no pressure, no judgment, just a lesbian therapist/coach/guide who has been there and can help you have a successful dating life. πŸ‘‰ Book Your Free Call Here What We're Covering This Week: This week, Anne-Marie and Barbara Rowlandson are back with another round of Reddit questions from sapphic women navigating the beautiful, messy, maddening world of queer dating. These posts hit close to home: 🌈 Is lesbian dating culture actually toxic? Spoiler: No. We're talking about why what feels uniquely lesbian is really just uniquely human β€” and why pathologizing our community doesn't help anyone. ❀️ What to do when your girlfriend brushes off arguments that leave you spinning. Hint: It's about attachment styles and communication, not your queerness. (And "we never fight" isn't the flex you think it is.) πŸ’” The woman who got stood up on date three. Dressed up, dinner reservation made, Sephora closed for emotional shopping β€” the whole bit. We're sending her all the love. 🌸 A tough-love conversation with a 43-year-old who thinks she's too old for love. We're unpacking the stories we inherit and how beliefs like "there aren't enough good people out there" can quietly run your whole dating life. πŸ’• The sweetest quest… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256/episodes/u-haul-university-stood-up-stressed-out-still-looking-for-love/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/coming-out-beyond-support-for-women-questioning-their-sexuality-3916256/u-haul-university-stood-up-stressed-out-still-looking-for-love.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.