# Why She Can Tell You’re "Performing" in Bed (And How to Fix It)

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Podcast: ["Come On, Man" Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440)
Published: 2026-06-15T15:37:08+00:00
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## Resource

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