# The Truth About SHIT TESTS: Why She’s Actually Testing Your Frame

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Podcast: ["Come On, Man" Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440)
Published: 2026-08-30T00:29:58+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/episodes/The-Truth-About-SHIT-TESTS-Why-Shes-Actually-Testing-Your-Frame-e3o2lbs
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## Resource

Dead bedroom marriage and sexless relationship problems often trace back to shit tests men fail without realizing it, and this excerpt from Get Her to F*ck You Again breaks down why. Paul Bauer covers why shit tests intensify the longer a marriage goes on as men slip into complacency and lose the frame she originally married, why emotional stability determines whether you pass or fail, and why reacting defensively is the exact signal that kills attraction in a sexless marriage. ➡️ Grab Get Her To F*ck You Again: https://mybook.to/GHTFYA

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