# The 4 Levels of Frame: Which One Are You Operating From? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/the-4-levels-of-frame-which-one-are-you-operating-from Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/the-4-levels-of-frame-which-one-are-you-operating-from.md Podcast: ["Come On, Man" Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440) Published: 2026-05-01T16:30:59+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/episodes/The-4-Levels-of-Frame-Which-One-Are-You-Operating-From-e3ioit9 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO1467287737.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/episodes/the-4-levels-of-frame-which-one-are-you-operating-from Duration seconds: 4818 ## Resource Are you living in a state of unconscious reaction, or are you the architect of your own reality? In this interview, we sit down with Raith Deantoir, author of The 4 Levels of Mental Frame, to discuss the blueprint for masculine sovereignty. We explore the transition from the Reactive Frame — where your emotions are at the mercy of approval and external triggers — to the Sovereign Frame, characterized by deep self-mastery and internal stability. Raith breaks down why many men stay stuck in defensive rebellion, how to maintain frame in relationships without destroying them, and the "Fortress Metaphor" for building a resilient mind. ➡️ Get Raith's book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FXT7PLD3/ VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- FREE EBOOKS ➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com ➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us -------------------------------------------- BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS ➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod ➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks -------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast Follow on X - ht… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/episodes/the-4-levels-of-frame-which-one-are-you-operating-from/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440/the-4-levels-of-frame-which-one-are-you-operating-from.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.