# Stop Sending This Opening Message (It’s Getting You Ghosted)

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Podcast: ["Come On, Man" Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/come-on-man-podcast-1313440)
Published: 2026-04-29T15:18:09+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/episodes/Stop-Sending-This-Opening-Message-Its-Getting-You-Ghosted-e3il83j
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Duration seconds: 3898

## Resource

Most guys think their opener is the problem, but she's already decided to unmatch before you even hit send. In this episode, we break down the psychology of the dating app inbox and why your first message is failing. From the "Hey" forfeit and over-investing to the reality of competing in a crowded inbox, we explore how your profile does the selling for you. Learn how to trigger an emotional response, avoid the neediness trap, and stop treating your messages like a job application. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- FREE EBOOKS ➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com ➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us -------------------------------------------- BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS ➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod ➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks -------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast Follow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpod Follow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpod -------------------------------------------- COMMUNITIES ➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/ ➡…

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