# Love, Friendship & Other Bad Decisions ft. Mandii B

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Published: 2026-09-13T15:34:25+00:00
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## Resource

It’s Kiki’s birthday episode, and Mandii B is back on the couch — which means there was never a chance this conversation was going to stay on one topic. Kiki and Mandii catch up on friendship, getting older, cutting people off, dating across age groups, and what it means when the relationships you’ve had for years no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Mandii also gets candid about being solo poly, why marriage and kids aren’t part of her end goal, navigating jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, and why knowing exactly what you want makes dating a whole lot easier. Of course, things get messy along the way. They get into who can and cannot say the N-word, why some people are obsessed with leaving a “legacy” through children, the pressure women put on romantic relationships, AI helping the girlies text men, rich auntie expectations, and whether people actually like the people they’re dating. Then Ask Kiki brings the perfect dilemma for Mandii: a listener is considering opening her relationship… except her boyfriend already has a coworker picked out. Is that ethical non-monogamy or just cheating with extra paperwork? And because Mandii is Mandii, she closes things out with a CockTale from Jamaica involving a nude pool, a very forward woman, a sea urchin, and a trip to the nurse’s station that somehow only gets wilder from there. Pour something bubbly and get into it — because this one is equal parts friendship, sex, relationships, hot takes, and pure chaos. Every sip has a story. Follow me! @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcast Contact Me! Advice : advice@cocktalespod.com CockTales : cocktales@cocktalespod.com Advertising : cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039 Sponsors/Special Offers: DRIVE BOOST Visit vb.health and u…

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