# Quick To Listen Slow To Speak - Rev. Jesse Mwai | CITAM Church Online

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Podcast: [CITAM Church Online](https://stenobird.com/podcast/citam-church-online-17108)
Published: 2026-04-28T09:00:01+00:00
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## Resource

True maturity and influence are found in the discipline of active listening rather than the impulse to respond. This message explores how impulsive communication erodes relationships and how intentional silence can build personal respect.

## Highlights
- Failure mode: Speaking without context exposes ignorance and undermines your credibility
- Practical takeaway: Use active listening to seek clarity and understand the full picture before formulating a response
- Main idea: Unsolicited advice and opinions often create friction rather than providing value
- Practical takeaway: Discipline yourself to use gentle, non-judgmental language that avoids causing grief or injury
- Main idea: Respecting others' boundaries on social media and in person positions you as someone worth listening to

## Topics

Active Listening, Communication Skills, Emotional Intelligence, Social Media Etiquette, Personal Discipline, Conflict Resolution, Self-Improvement, Interpersonal Relationships

## Chapters
- 0:00 — The Wisdom of Silence: An introduction to the principle of being quick to listen and the modern struggle with impulsive communication.
- 1:00 — The Social Media Trap: How the culture of instant commenting on unverified information exposes our own shortcomings.
- 2:00 — The Cost of Interrupting: How jumping into conversations without context can lead to lost opportunities and broken relationships.
- 3:00 — Developing the Art of Listening: Strategies for seeking clarity and using listening as a tool for deeper understanding.
- 4:00 — The Power of Restraint: Avoiding unsolicited advice and maintaining respect for others' perspectives to build lasting influence.
- 5:00 — Conclusion: A final call to practice the discipline of being slow to speak.

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