# Leadership Journeys [265] - Mallika Kapur - "Leadership can be lonely—but effectiveness matters more than approval."

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Podcast: [Choosing Leadership with Sumit Gupta](https://stenobird.com/podcast/choosing-leadership-with-sumit-gupta-4623737)
Published: 2026-01-08T09:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

This is the Leadership Journey series on the Choosing Leadership Podcast. I believe we all have a lot to learn from each other's stories - of where we started, where we are now, and our successes and struggles on the way. With this series of interviews, my attempt is to give leaders an opportunity to share their stories and for all of us to learn from their generous sharing. If you know a leader whom you would like to see celebrated on the show, please send me a message on LinkedIn with their name. In this episode, Mallika Kapur pulls back the curtain on what leadership actually looks like when you stop chasing approval and start focusing on impact. She shares her unexpected leap from medicine into health tech and how that shift forced her to think bigger, lead bolder, and reinvent herself at every stage. Mallika talks openly about the loneliness of being a woman leader, the pressure of carrying an entire organization through COVID, and the courage required to keep choosing effectiveness over comfort. Her insights on prioritization, delegation, and building a team that thinks beyond the small stuff will hit home for anyone feeling stretched thin. If you’re navigating growth, battling overwhelm, or figuring out how to lead without losing yourself, this conversation will give you a refreshing dose of clarity and fire. You can find Mallika Kapur at the links below https://www.linkedin.com/in/mallika-kapur-7665107/ mallika@aimil.com In the interview, Mallika shares “Leadership isn’t about approval — it’s about effectiveness, even when you’re the only woman in the room.” “I loved my patients, but I realized I couldn’t serve them if I was burning myself out.” “Shifting from medicine to health tech opened my eyes to how much bigger the impact could be.” “Technology isn’t a lu…

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