# Tangled, Not Broken: EMDR, Neurodiversity, and the Nervous System with Laurie Belanger Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger.md Podcast: [Chitty Chats with Stacy](https://stenobird.com/podcast/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681) Published: 2026-05-12T12:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://ccws.bepodcast.network/episodes/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/fae8b63c/6bad41c5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681/episodes/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger Duration seconds: 1991 ## Resource In this episode of Chitty Chats with Stacy , Stacy sits down with clinical social worker, trauma therapist, EMDRIA-approved consultant, educator, and Safe and Sound Protocol provider Laurie Belanger for a rich conversation about trauma, neurodiversity, EMDR, dissociation, and nervous system healing. Laurie shares her belief that people are “tangled, not broken,” and offers a deeply compassionate way of understanding complex trauma, especially in children, adoptive and foster families, neurodiverse individuals, and adults still carrying the impact of early experiences. Together, Stacy and Laurie explore why trauma and neurodiversity do not always fit into neat diagnostic boxes, how EMDR helps bridge the body and the mind, and why clinicians must remember they are not just technicians following steps—they are regulated humans bringing presence, discernment, and relationship into the room. They also unpack the Safe and Sound Protocol, using Laurie’s powerful explanation of the “sticky lever” in the ear and how our nervous system can become tuned to emergency settings. This conversation is full of practical wisdom, clinical depth, and the kind of nervous-system-informed language that helps people feel seen instead of labeled. This episode is a beautiful listen for therapists, educators, parents, caregivers, and anyone interested in trauma-informed healing, complex developmental trauma, dissociation, EMDR, neurodiversity, and the power of feeling safe enough to become more fully yourself. Laurie's Bio: Laurie Belanger, LCSW-R, is a seasoned psychotherapist specializing in the practical, individualized use of EMDR therapy integrated into complex presentations. She is known for being creative and adaptive. Over a career of 25 years Laurie has developed skill treating complex… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681/episodes/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/chitty-chats-with-stacy-6700681/tangled-not-broken-emdr-neurodiversity-and-the-nervous-system-with-laurie-belanger.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.