# AI and Dating After 40: Can Technology Help You Find Real Love with Joel Comm

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Podcast: [Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love](https://stenobird.com/podcast/charisma-quotient-build-confidence-make-connections-and-find-love-947785)
Published: 2026-02-27T05:00:00+00:00
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Can technology truly help us become better at love, or is it making things more transactional and detached? In Episode 433 of The Charisma Quotient, "AI and Dating After 40: Can Technology Help You Find Real Love with Joel Comm," Kimmy dives deep with guest Joel Comm—New York Times bestselling author, digital innovation expert, and host of "AI for Everyone"—to explore these questions and more. Kimmy and Joel reminisce about real-world connections and the role technology has played in their own journeys—including their hilarious story of reconnecting after years apart thanks to both Facebook glitches and human intuition. Together, they break down how AI is currently being used in dating, from chatbots writing flirty texts to platforms predicting our perfect matches. They discuss the benefits—like better safety, more precise matches, and support for those re-entering the dating pool—as well as serious drawbacks, such as overthinking, decision fatigue, and the loss of authentic connection and in-person chemistry. Listen at the end where AI actually created a song for this episode! You'll hear: How AI tools are influencing everything from match selection to first-date conversation starters The hidden pitfalls of relying too much on AI for flirting, texting, and dating Joel and Kimmy's real-life story of reconnection—where algorithms failed and humanity triumphed Why body language, humor, and presence are irreplaceable components of attraction Strategies for using AI as a dating resource, not an emotional substitute If you're tired of overthinking and want to work towards dating people IRL, book your free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite…

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