# When Fighting Is the Only Way You Feel Close

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Podcast: [Change The Odds](https://stenobird.com/podcast/change-the-odds-6742411)
Published: 2026-02-18T14:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://changetheodds.thrivepodcastnetwork.com/episodes/ep83
Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/ed2eca7b/00ca4007.mp3
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## Resource

What if your biggest fights are actually your deepest moments of connection? In this Fight Club episode, we unpack anxious vs. avoidant attachment, makeup sex, and why some couples feel closer through chaos than calm. -- Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram) : https://go.bayside.church/fightclub

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