# Daily Shift 169: People pleasing is where your burnout, anxiety, and grief all meet Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/celeste-the-therapist-558249/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/celeste-the-therapist-558249/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet.md Podcast: [Celeste The Therapist](https://stenobird.com/podcast/celeste-the-therapist-558249) Published: 2026-05-28T07:41:00+00:00 Episode link: https://celestethetherapist.libsyn.com/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/celestethetherapist/169.mp3?dest-id=721232 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/celeste-the-therapist-558249/episodes/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet Duration seconds: 300 ## Resource If you've been listening to the last few weeks of the Daily Shift — the burnout series, the grief series, the anxiety and uncertainty series — this episode is going to connect some dots that might change everything. Because underneath most burnout is a people pleaser who couldn't say no. Underneath most anxiety is a people pleaser who is terrified of disapproval. And underneath most grief is a people pleaser who lost themselves trying to keep everyone else okay. In today's episode, Celeste names the thread that connects it all. If you've been wondering why the same patterns keep showing up in different areas of your life, this one is going to give you the answer. Today's shift: Ask yourself honestly — how much of what I'm carrying right now is the result of saying yes when I needed to say no? Events Store Follow Celeste podcast page on tick tock , facebook and instagram Follow STWYT Wellness center on tick tock , facebook and instagram ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/celeste-the-therapist-558249/episodes/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/celeste-the-therapist-558249/daily-shift-169-people-pleasing-is-where-your-burnout-anxiety-and-grief-all-meet.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.