# Parenting for the Future: Why Dr. Kathy's New Book Is Important For Parents No Matter The Age Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693/parenting-for-the-future-why-dr-kathy-s-new-book-is-important-for-parents-no-matter-the-age Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693/parenting-for-the-future-why-dr-kathy-s-new-book-is-important-for-parents-no-matter-the-age.md Podcast: [Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy](https://stenobird.com/podcast/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693) Published: 2026-04-08T10:20:00+00:00 Episode link: https://celebratekids.libsyn.com/from-control-to-influence-loving-your-adult-children-well Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/celebratekids/260408_-_New_Books_mixdown.mp3?dest-id=1509386 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693/episodes/parenting-for-the-future-why-dr-kathy-s-new-book-is-important-for-parents-no-matter-the-age Duration seconds: 1120 ## Resource As our kids grow, something powerful replaces control. That something is influence. And influence is built on relationship. Influence grows where conversations feel safe. It deepens where respect is mutual. It strengthens when our kids know they are valued not just for what they do, but for who they are. This shift mirrors a beautiful picture from Scripture. In 1 Thessalonians, Paul describes his relationship with others not through authority, but through gentleness, encouragement, and shared life. He speaks as both a nurturing mother and an encouraging father, showing us that lasting impact comes through relational investment. When we move from controlling behavior to cultivating connection, we position ourselves to remain a meaningful voice in our children's lives. In this episode of Facing the Dark , Wayne and Dr. Kathy unpack how parents can move from control to influence and respond when adult kids name old hurts in ways that build relationships that stay strong for the long haul. GET Dr. KATHY'S NEW BOOK>> ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693/episodes/parenting-for-the-future-why-dr-kathy-s-new-book-is-important-for-parents-no-matter-the-age/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/celebrate-kids-podcast-with-dr-kathy-253693/parenting-for-the-future-why-dr-kathy-s-new-book-is-important-for-parents-no-matter-the-age.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.