# You're Not Stuck, You're Arguing to Stay That Way Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100/you-re-not-stuck-you-re-arguing-to-stay-that-way Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100/you-re-not-stuck-you-re-arguing-to-stay-that-way.md Podcast: [Breaking Free from OCD, Anxiety & Stress with Matt Codde](https://stenobird.com/podcast/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100) Published: 2026-07-14T22:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/restoredminds/episodes/Youre-Not-Stuck--Youre-Arguing-to-Stay-That-Way-e3m2ufa Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/ef0923c/podcast/play/122828714/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-14%2F427948613-44100-2-5340e22606af5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100/episodes/you-re-not-stuck-you-re-arguing-to-stay-that-way Duration seconds: 1347 ## Resource Arguing for Your Limitations: 9 Self-Limiting Beliefs Keeping You Stuck in OCD, Anxiety & Fear If you feel like you've been "trying to heal" for years but keep landing in the same place, this episode is for you. Matt Codde, LCSW breaks down the most common ways we unconsciously build a case for why we can't change, grow, or heal, and why admitting "I was wrong" might be the most powerful phrase in your recovery. This isn't about blame. It's about awareness. Matt walks through nine self-limiting beliefs he's seen (and lived through himself) that keep people trapped in OCD, anxiety, fear loops, and chronic suffering, from blaming time and money to hiding behind personality, family, and spirituality. If you or someone you love has been stuck in the OCD or anxiety cycle and can't figure out why nothing seems to stick, this conversation will help you see what's really in the way. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand why admitting "I was wrong" is one of the most healing phrases you can say to yourself ✅Learn the 9 most common self-limiting beliefs that keep people stuck in OCD and anxiety ✅See why blaming time, money, or intelligence is often a disguised fear of change ✅Understand how family and generational beliefs can quietly block your healing ✅Learn why perfectionism is fear wearing a more acceptable mask ✅See how "resourcefulness" matters more than resources when it comes to recovery ✅ Understand how to start recognizing these patterns in your own life 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal: 📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical st… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100/episodes/you-re-not-stuck-you-re-arguing-to-stay-that-way/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/breaking-free-from-ocd-anxiety-stress-with-matt-codde-1194100/you-re-not-stuck-you-re-arguing-to-stay-that-way.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.