# Ep. 42 | 8 Essential Mind Shifts for More Connected Parenting

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Podcast: [Brain First Parenting with Eileen Devine](https://stenobird.com/podcast/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827)
Published: 2026-05-18T09:00:31+00:00
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SUMMARY - In this episode, Eileen shares 8 essential mind shifts that help parents move from a behavioral lens to a Brain First lens when parenting children with brain-based differences and challenging behaviors. These shifts can help you better understand your child’s nervous system, reduce conflict, strengthen connection, and parent with more clarity, flexibility, and confidence. TAKEAWAYS: Why “My child would do better if they could” is one of the most transformative parenting shifts How challenging behaviors are often signs of distress, overwhelm, and lagging skills Why behavior-focused parenting approaches often miss the root causes How adjusting expectations around development can reduce frustration for both you and your child The importance of meeting cognitive rigidity with flexibility and empathy Why the goal of parenting is not compliance, but connection, regulation, and skill-building How to trust your own understanding of your child, even when others don’t understand your approach Why caring for yourself is an essential part of supporting your child’s well-being RESOURCES: Free downloadable infographic: 8 Essential Mind Shifts for More Connected Parenting Episode 19: Rethinking What It Means to Be Resilient ======================= If you appreciated this episode, and would like to receive a weekly note from Eileen about the Brain First Parenting journey every Monday, you can subscribe to her free newsletter HERE ! You can also check out all the FREE resources Eileen offers for parents, and learn more about all things Brain First at her website: eileendevine.com And of course, find and follow Eileen on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube Pinterest

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