# Ep. 19 | Rethinking What It Means to Be Resilient Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827/ep-19-rethinking-what-it-means-to-be-resilient Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827/ep-19-rethinking-what-it-means-to-be-resilient.md Podcast: [Brain First Parenting with Eileen Devine](https://stenobird.com/podcast/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827) Published: 2025-06-30T09:00:35+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZzWs5wxw7J/0279ff0e-c6f3-4837-bbf8-c43eaf96bf79.mp3 Audio file: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/ZzWs5wxw7J/0279ff0e-c6f3-4837-bbf8-c43eaf96bf79.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827/episodes/ep-19-rethinking-what-it-means-to-be-resilient Duration seconds: 834 ## Resource SUMMARY - This podcast dives into what resilience is and why it's essential for parents of kids with challenging behavioral symptoms to not only understand what it is, but steps they can take to build it each day. TAKEAWAYS: It is imperative as parents of complex kids with intense needs that you understand what it is and how to build it each day. Resilience is what allows us to move through difficult emotions like grief, sadness, and resentment. Resilience is something we all have access to, something we can cultivate within us each day. "Grit" or "soldiering on" chips away at resilience over time Honoring your response to the situation at hand and offering yourself self-compassion builds resilience Getting support, one-to-one or through community is essential for building resilience, especially when experiencing compassion fatigue and caregiver burnout. Ways to build resilience: find your "people" (be in community), practice self-compassion, move your body, breath work RESOURCES: The Resilience Room Membership Community FREE (downloadable) Weekly Plan for Nervous System Care Reconsidering What It Means to Be Resilient (blog post) Kristin Neff: Self-compassion resources ======================= If you appreciated this episode, and would like to receive a weekly note from Eileen about the Brain First Parenting journey every Monday, you can subscribe to her free newsletter HERE ! You can also check out all the FREE resources Eileen offers for parents, and learn more about all things Brain First at her website: eileendevine.com And of course, find and follow Eileen on social media: Facebook Instagram YouTube Pinterest ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827/episodes/ep-19-rethinking-what-it-means-to-be-resilient/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/brain-first-parenting-with-eileen-devine-7069827/ep-19-rethinking-what-it-means-to-be-resilient.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.