# Safety, Trust, & Authenticity: How PDA Experiences Can Inform Our Practices with Diane Gould, Ruth Hevelone, and Michele Kleinmann Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-with-diane-gould-ruth-hevelone-and-michele-kleinmann Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-with-diane-gould-ruth-hevelone-and-michele-kleinmann.md Podcast: [Born to Be Free: Supporting Neurodivergent Clients to Learn, Play, & Thrive](https://stenobird.com/podcast/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792) Published: 2026-07-01T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://two-sides-of-the-spectrum.simplecast.com/episodes/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-ZycM0uKJ Audio file: https://cdn.simplecast.com/media/audio/transcoded/ada97ddd-7edd-4184-a7ca-a5b82c213ac8/b81a4df9-d5e1-4a0d-a9fb-65a02f9e4a87/episodes/audio/group/6ea0f610-b561-4e87-be94-c465a440db75/group-item/6dc0fa71-9826-4ef6-8c76-fdc573950bcb/128_default_tc.mp3?aid=rss_feed&feed=95l3t3IC Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792/episodes/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-with-diane-gould-ruth-hevelone-and-michele-kleinmann Duration seconds: 2929 ## Resource The folks at PDA North America recently surveyed over 2,000 families about PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance, or the Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). What they learned has major implications for your clinical practice. In today’s episode, you'll hear from Diane Gould, Ruth Hevelone, and Michele Kleinmann. We talk about what they learned from their PDA Experiences survey, as well as the practices that are supportive for PDAers. We talk about respect, partnership, flexibility, authenticity, congruency, and more. We also address in depth that question that so many of us get when we are accommodating our Autistic clients: "What about the real world?" If you support PDA-ers, after you listen to this conversation, make sure to also check out our Patreon where we have providers talking in-depth about how they support PDA-ers in the context of everyday SLP, OT, mental health practice. They go into how to move through rupture and repair when they get it wrong, some of our guests talk about how to support PDA-ers in burnout, how to bring autonomy into everything including regulation, and more. It's just $7 for over 30-hours of content and you can find it at patreon.com/learnplaythrive. Your support on Patreon helps us cover the cost of this podcast and keep it going. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792/episodes/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-with-diane-gould-ruth-hevelone-and-michele-kleinmann/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/born-to-be-free-supporting-neurodivergent-clients-to-learn-play-thrive-734792/safety-trust-authenticity-how-pda-experiences-can-inform-our-practices-with-diane-gould-ruth-hevelone-and-michele-kleinmann.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.