# You Trained Them to Treat You This Way

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Published: 2026-06-23T14:00:00+00:00
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Send us Fan Mail If you've ever looked at your life and wondered how you became the person who does everything for everyone — this episode is for you. In this deeply personal and unflinching episode, Matilda explores the hidden architecture of people-pleasing: how it gets installed in childhood, how it quietly transfers into our adult relationships, and why so many women in their fifties arrive at a moment of reckoning that looks like a crisis but is actually the first honest conversation the...

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