# Permission to Be Human: Loving Boundaries with Flexibility in Food Addiction Recovery Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-binge-eating-7099183/permission-to-be-human-loving-boundaries-with-flexibility-in-food-addiction-recovery Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-binge-eating-7099183/permission-to-be-human-loving-boundaries-with-flexibility-in-food-addiction-recovery.md Podcast: [Beyond Binge Eating](https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-binge-eating-7099183) Published: 2026-09-18T19:00:00+00:00 Episode link: http://www.BeyondBingeEating.com Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/ee0fab32-2c0f-4243-b54d-cc62e15c89f5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/beyond-binge-eating-7099183/episodes/permission-to-be-human-loving-boundaries-with-flexibility-in-food-addiction-recovery Duration seconds: 311 ## Resource Most people in food addiction and binge eating recovery know they need structure. Clear lines. Foods that don't work, behaviors that aren't up for negotiation. That structure can be deeply freeing — when the decision is already made, the mental bargaining quiets down. But structure doesn't mean perfection. And perfectionism in recovery can be just as dangerous as the binge itself. In this episode, I'm talking about the abstinence violation effect — also known as the "screw it" effect — and why a single slip doesn't have to spiral into a week, a month, or longer. Real recovery isn't about never falling. It's about how quickly you return to center. What You'll Learn: • Why the "all or nothing" mindset can make a small slip catastrophic • What the abstinence violation effect is and how to interrupt it • The mindset shift that changes everything: recovery is increasing stability, not perfection • How your nervous system and self-awareness grow over time in recovery • What it actually looks like to return to center — quietly, without drama ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Beyond Binge Eating Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/BeyondBingeEating/ Website: https://www.BeyondBingeEating.com Newsletter: https://beyondbingeeating.com/Newsletter/ --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Grab your FREE Eat-With-Awareness Bundle to slow down, stay present, and reclaim peace with food: https://beyondbingeeating.com/opt-in/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/beyond-binge-eating-7099183/episodes/permission-to-be-human-loving-boundaries-with-flexibility-in-food-addiction-recovery/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-binge-eating-7099183/permission-to-be-human-loving-boundaries-with-flexibility-in-food-addiction-recovery.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.