# E:87: After My Divorce, God Showed Me I Still Had a Choice

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Podcast: [Beyond Believing: Helping Christian Women Heal Post Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-believing-helping-christian-women-heal-post-divorce-7055056)
Published: 2026-04-15T17:29:59+00:00
Episode link: https://beyondbelieving.podbean.com/e/e87-after-my-divorce-god-showed-me-i-still-had-a-choice/
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Duration seconds: 810

## Resource

Ready to take your power back? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I thought I was trusting God. What I didn’t see is that I was also handing my power to my ex every single day — delaying decisions, waiting on his cooperation, organizing my life around his next move. I didn’t choose that consciously. It was just running in the background. In this episode I walk through the seven-word question God asked me that shut the autopilot off. And why 1 John 4:4 is not a motivational poster — it is a Tuesday-afternoon instruction for every decision you are making right now. If you are a divorced Christian woman who is exhausted by a life still organized around someone who already left it — this episode is for you. Scripture Anchor: 1 John 4:4 · Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work. CHAPTER MARKERS 0:00 — The autopilot I didn’t know was running 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — What giving power away looks like for the Chaser 2:30 — What it looks like for the Cutoff 3:30 — The woman in eight years of litigation 6:00 — What she could not see — and what I recognized 6:30 — The seven-word question 9:00 — 1 John 4:4 — not motivation, instruction 11:30 — What taking your power back actually looks like 13:30 — You are not powerless 15:00 — Apply for coaching giving power away after divorce | waiting on your ex | co-parenting power dynamics | divorced Christian women healing | 1 John 4:4 | power and control after divorce | God gives strength after divorce | Christian podcast divorced women | taking your life back after divorce | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | decision making after divorce | healing after divorce Christian | co-parenting difficult ex | identity af…

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