# E:84: God Doesn't Need You to Be the Heroine — He Needs You to Tell the Truth

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Podcast: [Beyond Believing: Helping Christian Women Heal Post Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/beyond-believing-helping-christian-women-heal-post-divorce-7055056)
Published: 2026-04-04T12:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 799

## Resource

Ready to tell a different story? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I told my story the same way every time. What I lost. What was taken. What it cost me. I thought that was honesty. What God showed me is that a story centered on what was done to you has no room for what He has done through it. In this episode I walk through the Christus Victor theology, the etymology of the word victim, and Proverbs 23:7 to show you why the way you tell your story is producing who you are becoming — and how to tell the whole truth. God doesn't need you to be the heroine. He needs you to be the witness. Scripture: Proverbs 23:7 · Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work. Chapter Markers 0:00 — I was leaving God out of my story 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — The story I kept telling 3:00 — Who is at the center? 5:30 — The word victim — what it actually means 7:30 — Christus Victor — He went as victor, not victim 9:00 — Proverbs 23:7 — as she thinks, so she becomes 10:30 — The whole truth 12:00 — Three questions to carry 13:30 — Oswald Chambers — who is the Source? 14:30 — Not the heroine — the witness 15:00 — Apply for coaching victim mentality after divorce | telling your story after divorce | Christus Victor | Christian podcast divorced women | healing your narrative | Proverbs 23:7 | identity after divorce | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | divorce recovery faith | God in your story | post divorce identity | Oswald Chambers | divorced Christian women healing | coach Katie Anne #DivorceHealing #VictimMentality #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelieving #ChristusVictor #FaithAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #IdentityInChrist #PostDivorce #Divo…

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