# E:83: I Thought My Ex Was the Problem. God Showed Me I Was Creating It.

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Published: 2026-04-02T20:54:08+00:00
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## Resource

If you're ready to embrace the identity God spoke over you, Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call I thought the conflict in my life was coming from my ex. My church. The people who judged my divorce. I was wrong. In this episode I walk through what Jesus was actually teaching in Matthew 7 — the beam and the speck — and show you why it is not just a humility lesson. It is a mechanism. And once you see it, you cannot unsee it in your own daily life. If you are exhausted by a conflict that never seems to end — this episode is for you. Scripture: Matthew 7:3-5 · Proverbs 23:7 · Apply for coaching: coachkatieanne.com/call If this helped you, subscribe and leave a review. It helps more women find this work. 0:00 — I thought my ex was the problem 0:38 — Welcome 1:15 — The list I kept making 3:00 — You have a list too 5:30 — What Matthew 7 is actually teaching 7:30 — The beam you cannot see 9:00 — When you become what you are focused on 10:30 — Your ex isn't the problem 12:00 — What I learned fighting for my marriage 13:30 — Mirror vs. window — John Piper 15:00 — Apply for coaching conflict after divorce | co-parenting conflict Christian | Matthew 7 beam speck | creating conflict without knowing | Christian podcast divorced women | healing after divorce | co-parenting with difficult ex | beyond believing podcast | Christian life coach | divorce recovery | thought patterns divorce | judgment after divorce | John Piper mirror window | post divorce healing Christian | coach Katie Anne #DivorceHealing #CoParenting #ChristianWomen #BeyondBelieving #ConflictAfterDivorce #Matthew7 #FaithAfterDivorce #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #ThoughtPatterns #PostDivorce #DivorcedChristianWomen #CoachKatieAnne #JohnPiper

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