# How Social Media Ruins Relationships [Ep 119]

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Podcast: [Better Than Perfect | A Relationship Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast-6707853)
Published: 2026-03-06T15:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/betterthanperfect/episodes/How-Social-Media-Ruins-Relationships-Ep-119-e3f9hsh
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Duration seconds: 5102

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How Social Media Ruins Relationships Unrealistic beauty standards are destroying modern dating — and most people don't even realize it's happening. In this episode, John and Echo break down how fitness influencers, AI-edited photos, body positivity culture, and the "looks maxing" movement have warped the way we see ourselves and our partners. If you've ever felt like you or your partner don't measure up, this episode will change how you think about attraction. From the rise of Instagram filters and catfishing to young men bone-smashing their faces for better cheekbones, they pull no punches on how both extremes — looks maxing AND toxic body positivity — are cults that breed insecurity, kill relationships, and fuel the male loneliness epidemic. John and Echo debate where the real line is between self-improvement and self-destruction, and how to find the sweet spot that actually makes you more attractive. In This Episode Social media has so polluted our brains that we've lost the ability to be naturally attracted to normal, healthy people Both looks maxing culture and extreme body positivity are destructive cults — they just lie in opposite directions The "looks maxing" movement is hitting young men especially hard, with dangerous trends like bone smashing, steroid use, and limb lengthening surgery Hyper-inflated beauty standards are a major driver of the male loneliness epidemic — impossible standards mean fewer people pair up Constantly viewing altered images desensitizes you to your real partner, quietly killing attraction in long-term relationships Confidence in how you look should come from doing YOUR personal best — not from chasing someone else's filtered highlight reel The healthy middle ground: optimize between being your best self AND staying true to who you ac…

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