# Dating Is Broken: Social Media, Insecurity, and What's Next [Ep 126]

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Podcast: [Better Than Perfect | A Relationship Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast-6707853)
Published: 2026-04-24T15:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/betterthanperfect/episodes/Dating-Is-Broken-Social-Media--Insecurity--and-Whats-Next-Ep-126-e3h3jef
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Dating Is Broken: Social Media, Insecurity, and What's Next The state of dating and relationships has never been more chaotic — and social media is the accelerant. John and Echo break down why influencer culture, looks-obsessed content creators, and chronically online young people are destroying any chance at real connection, and what's actually driving it all: deep, unaddressed insecurity. From the "captain of the ship" talk and why men shouldn't volunteer commitment first, to the Manosphere documentary, to the Clavicular phenomenon — this episode tackles how fake online lives are warping what young men and women think dating even is. John and Echo get into why parents are failing their kids by handing them social media without guardrails, why money multiplies whatever's already broken in you, and why the void that influencers keep chasing can never actually be filled. In This Episode Women are gatekeepers of sex; men are gatekeepers of commitment — you can't lead the "captain of the ship" talk without leverage You must already BE the captain before she ever asks "what are we?" — it's a clarification, not a surprise announcement Influencers like Clavicular aren't proof that looks are everything — women respond to fame and environment, not just his face The insecurity epidemic is now hitting men the way magazines hit women in the 90s — and it's getting worse Money is a multiplier: it makes good people better and broken people more broken Social media has turned from "be yourself with friends" into spectacle, celebrity, and curated lies Parents handing kids unrestricted social media without conversations are setting them up to chase validation forever The void never gets filled — self-respect, confidence, and loving yourself is the only real answer Timestamps 0:00 — The…

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