# People Pleasing: A Symptom of Growing Pains Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091/people-pleasing-a-symptom-of-growing-pains Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091/people-pleasing-a-symptom-of-growing-pains.md Podcast: [Bedtime Talks With Zhan](https://stenobird.com/podcast/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091) Published: 2025-03-12T21:50:07+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.com/podcasts/bedtime-talks-with-zhan/1937717 Audio file: https://content.rss.com/episodes/302980/1937717/bedtime-talks-with-zhan/2025_03_12_19_45_16_6cdc4346-058c-4668-884f-fe88d282dbf1.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091/episodes/people-pleasing-a-symptom-of-growing-pains Duration seconds: 1658 ## Resource On this week's episode I go deeper into the hardships of being a kind person. Knowing when to draw the line between being nice to people and pleasing them is something that can make or break your success with denying your flesh. This is something I am still learning to teach myself to do, but I thought this topic has always been trendy in my life. In this season, I am trying my best to say NO and be okay with people not understanding the way I move now. Scripture References: Mathew 16:24 "Then Jesus said to His disciples, "If anyone desires to come after ME, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me." Other resources: More Purpose Podcast - https://youtube.com/@morepurposepodcast?si=MLBEHbwxJfdp_Dcx Make sure you follow me :) Social Media: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/xoxo__zhan/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@zhanvie?lang=en YouTube: https://youtube.com/@zhanseyeline?si=gSOsKlRZxrMRsxUx ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091/episodes/people-pleasing-a-symptom-of-growing-pains/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/bedtime-talks-with-zhan-7114091/people-pleasing-a-symptom-of-growing-pains.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.